There is a kind of love called maintenance
Which stores the WD40 and knows when to use it;
Which checks the insurance, and doesn't forget
The milkman; which remembers to plant bulbs;
Which answers letters, which knows the way
The money goes; which deals with dentists
And Road Fund Tax and meeting trains,
And postcards to the lonely; which upholds
The permanently rickety elaborate
Structures of living, which is Atlas.
And maintenance is the sensible side of love,
Which knows what time and weather are doing
To my brickwork; insulates my faulty wiring;
Laughs at my dryrotten jokes; remembers
My need for gloss and grouting; which keeps
My suspect edifice upright in air,
As Atlas did the sky.
Susan Hill's new book of essays, Jacob's Room Is Full of Books, mentions this poem by U A Fanthorpe called "Atlas." I was going to look it up but of course as is the way with these things I didn't write down the title and forgot about it. Until I picked up Nancy Pearl's new novel, George & Lizzie. And there it was in the back. It made me cry because i have an Atlas of my own who loves me and who keeps my edifice upright.