One of the blogs I read regularly is Anecdotal Evidence, written by Patrick Kurp in Houston. Here's a quote from a recent post:
Philip Larkin "in his defense of Barbara Pym and her novels:
“I like to read about people who have done nothing spectacular, who aren’t beautiful and lucky, who try to behave well in the limited field of activity they command, but who can see, in the little autumnal moments of vision, that the so called ‘big’ experiences of life are going to miss them; and I like to read about such things presented not with self-pity or despair or romanticism, but with realistic firmness and even humour.”
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